Giving Choices & Setting Limits
Consistently following through can be extremely difficult for us as parents for many reasons. We could be:
exhausted from the day…
going through power struggle #354…
thinking it won’t matter if we allow it just this once…
not understanding how to help our child in these moments of crisis…
Dear Grown Ups…
Hi! It’s me, your kid.
I know you’re busy, but hear me out - I’ve got a proposal that I think you’ll like… How about we team up on this whole "growing up" thing? I promise it’ll be worth your while, and here’s why:
Unveiling The Magic of Unconventional Reading Spaces
As parents, one of the most wonderful gifts we can give our children is the love of reading. But who says it has to be done in the traditional way? Let's explore the magic of unconventional reading spaces, where imagination and education blend seamlessly.
Conversing: So much more than chit-chat
Most children have no problem voicing their opinion, sharing their likes and dislikes, or refusing a request made by an adult. However, carrying on a conversation that doesn't involve talking about themselves, or listing things that relate directly back to them, or relate to a topic instead can be very difficult. Children are learning thousands of words every day. Something that is still quite new to them is the art of back-and-forth conversations. This is when they have to talk, listen, process what's been said, and respond in a way that keeps the conversation going.
The Secret Language of Kids: Unlocking Your Child's Non-Verbal Cues
Early childhood is a pivotal stage where verbal skills are still budding. Kids rely on other means to express their emotions and needs. By becoming adept at reading these silent messages, you can connect with your child on a deeper level, providing support and guidance that align with their unspoken feelings.
Podcast Feature
Listen to our episode being featured on The Play Based Learning Podcast with Kristen R.B. Peterson.
Slot Machine Brain: the scientific urge to f*ck around and find out.
Pull the lever, Kronk!
When Love Becomes a Number: Deciphering the Quantitative Affections of Young Children
"Mommy, I love you THIS MUCH!" declares your four-year-old, arms stretched out as wide as they can reach. Hours later, perhaps after a minor disagreement over bedtime, that same child might profess, "I don’t love you anymore!" or the ever-stinging, "I love Daddy more than you." These fluctuations of feelings can be perplexing and hurtful to parents. But is there more beneath these seemingly capricious expressions of affection?
When two worlds collide: the power of a united front
Every parent has had moments of self-doubt, moments where they questioned, "Am I doing this right? Why does parenting seem simpler for my partner?" But in these moments, instead of retreating into individual corners, there lies an opportunity to come together, discuss, and decide on a shared path forward.
Why consequences work and punishments don’t:
This doesn't mean you say yes to everything when they become upset. It doesn't mean you let them scream at the top of their lungs in your face. No one wants that, and it isn't okay for a child to do that. What you can do is be present. Vocalize what you see, identify how they feel, and let them know that when they need help they can always count on you.
